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Thanksgiving celebrates harvest time during the fall in nature’s calendar, but for me the holiday changed according to the seasons of life. In the “springtime” of youth, I set the table, helped in the kitchen and babysat younger cousins during dinner. When the “summertime” of adulthood arrived, I became self-sufficient, and, along with my first husband, provided for our young family, and proudly so.
Pride comes before the fall.
I imagine that many people know that their good fortune is something to be celebrated with humility, but I didn’t. Not until my marriage failed and I ended up a middle-aged woman spending Thanksgiving alone did I realize that I missed that lesson somewhere. I wish I could say that I made a quick 180-degree turn, but the harvest of humility and gratitude took me several more years.
Now in the fall of life, I know that my life has a purpose, to serve, to use my hands, talents and skills to do good work. This year at Vanaprastha, Keith and I welcome family, friends and neighbors to our table. We share the cornucopia of our prosperity and give humble thanks to God for all our blessings.
Happy Thanks Giving!
Susan said:
At my aunt’s this year…
It is the year of the hard decision. Yes, probably after I leave she will be put into a facitlity. I love her but, she doesn’t move from the chair. It is hard when you have known her to be so active. Good to hear you are well.
Carole Duff said:
My prayers are with you. -C.D.
Sarah Myers said:
Nicely said – Thursday gives us an opportunity to say those SO important words . . . Thank you!
Bev Lacey said:
Well put, Carole. I’m thankful that you sent me the link to your blog after our discussion at Basic Necessities. Wishing you a Thanksgiving that creates lasting memories and food for more blogs! –Bev
Carole Duff said:
Thank you, Bev, and for all the wonderful “necessities”. -C.D.
Carole Duff said:
And thank you for your post! http://thenoontimes.wordpress.com/2011/11/22/pride-and-fall/
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